Initially, I thought of blogging from here but this server too has problems with overload so I have to ditch the idea of moving from my personal blog. My personal blog 5xmom at chanlilian.net is hosted on a VPS while this is from Bluehost.

Anyway, I think I am going to write ‘50 reasons why I love Malaysia’. Before my regular readers died laughing (knowing my sentiments towards the current issues), it is serious.

I think I must separate the governing body from the lovely country that we live in. So, yeah, from 1st August, 2007 till 31st August, 2007, I am going to write 50 reasons why I love Malaysia. That means two posts per day. Eh, I can write ‘I love roti canai’, ‘I love teh tarik’ and that makes two post already, ok?

Anyone interested to take part in this madness? Please let me know and I can open an account for you.

I started this blog on 7th July, 2007 with the grand idea that I will move my regular blogging over here because the other server, a VPS, mind you is costing me a lot of money. Meanwhile, the server here is under utilised.

I also wanted to move my category under ‘Thoughts’ and ‘Life and Rants’ which are actually Bitching and Ranting over here. I name them ‘Thoughts’ so that advertisers don’t smack me for being such a bitch. But I couldn’t because the XML file or whatever is too big and Wordpress cannot import and export.

Midway while hunting for other method to import only categories, I lost my directions. And I totally hate the idea of starting over here. Moreover, Google pagerank shake-up is in the works and I think shall just wait a little while and see how it goes.

If I still maintain at PR5/10, I am going to do things differently. If I dropped to a PR4/10, I will commit suicide. Blogicide, I mean.

So please bear with me for a while. Meantime, I do not know how to thank all those great folks whom had contributed close to 100 posts here. I read them all but never get around to say thank you to every individual post.

I pledge RM300 and that amount will be donated to Eden Handicap Centre. I am also taking part in the Blogathon by hijacking The Giving Hands blog. I will only do the promo on Monday, when traffic is higher. I will take out my AK47, C4, sushi knives and cleavers and demand my regular readers in 5xmom to pledge and donate. No point asking too early because people are usually too lazy and will wait till the last minute.

So, thanks folks for all your contribution. Right now, the guest-blogging is closed. But I will think of something and we do that again soon.

And yeah, some people said I am evil in filling up contents without actually writing. Heh, true also but hey, those words and posts are certainly a lot wiser and better than my own so let’s just see it as a treasure given by the kind folks to me, ok? Now, where is my Adsense code? Hehehe, just joking.

Malaysian teens are taking contraceptive pills to have smooth skins and remove pimples . Those contraceptive pills are smuggled in from Indonesia and are sold for Rm6.00 for a 28 pc pack. It is much cheaper than those sold in the farmacies..It has a ,’Not for sale ‘tag which means it is from the Indonesian govt health service.

 The contraceptive pills contain a high level of female hormones ,oestrogen and progestin . These hormones will make the skin smoother  and prevent pimples from forming.

If you take in moderate amounts, it will be beneficial but if you take in excess , you may lead to side effects like stomach upsets, headaches or migraines, hormonal imbalances, hair loss, dehydration, increase of appetite, anxiety attacks, emotional tension and blood vessel disorders.

 If a man consumed those pills, he will have a smoother complexion, strong possibility of developing women’s features like breasts, face may change to a more feminine look or become more effiminate or lady like.

Reference

http://newpaper.asia1.com.sg/news/story/0,4136,135853,00.html?

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Suzie &  Laura  www.pinksuzie.com

Why do people feel lonely?

When u see loving couples walking hand in hand in the public, u wished u also had one who will walked with u and hold ur hands.U would be proud to announced to the whole world that u have found a loving partner who would care and worship ur every footsteps.

U wonder why some people are so fortunate to find someone to love them or be there for them while u are all alone like a nobody’s child.

When u are unwell or sick , no one to cuddle u and give u hugs and say soothing words and to keep u warm by snuggling close to u.

U seek love and companionship but it seems like an elusive dream.If u want to find love, u must give love. Love must come from the very bottom of ur heart..Love urself ,love ur family , love ur friends , love anything and everything.Then u will be full of love and u will not find loneliness anymore.

When u give love, it will be returned to u.What u sow , so shall u reap.Sow love, love ,love everywhere and u will receive bountifully back. Dont worry , if they dont come back. Atleast ur love make somebody happy because of ur concern and ur thoughts of them.

Many people worked long hours and do not have any interactions with others or their loved one’s. Getting married is also no cure for loneliness.

To keep loneliness away , you need a hobby or an activity which will take much of your free time Be addicted to blogging or whatever u find fun indoing it. keke!

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Suzie & Laura www.pinksuzie.com

Forgiveness….

Romans 12:17

Never pay back evil with evil..Do things in such a way that everyone can see u are honest clear enough..Dont quarrel with anyone. Be at peace with everyone just as much as possible.

God , forgive us as we forgive those who have hurt us .. As Christians we should not have the problem of forgiving those who hurt us .If we want to have peace in our life, we must learn to forgive and move on with our life. We must not withhold forgiveness or our sins will not be forgiven by God.

Let go of those hurts and if u cannot , then asked Jesus to help u to forgive that person. If God love us the way He let His son Jesus to die on the cross for us, we should forgive and really forgive that person. Never avenge for the wrong for God will repay that person back.Leave it to God. Remember God’s grace and what u have received, pass it on to others.

Forgiveness is a process which may take time and then u need God to heal ur pains and hurts .
Nobody is perfect ,we all made mistakes.Someday we too may offend or hurt our friends unintentionally..

An easy way to forgive others is u think of them as like little children..It is much easier to forgive children than adults.

Forgive them for they know not what they are doing..

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Suzie & Laura www.pinksuzie.com

Controlling the tongue….

James 3:1
Dear brothers, dont be too eager to tell others their faults,
for we all make many mistakes .

The tongue is only a small part of the body, but it can wreck havoc or build somebody up.
The tongue is like a small bit in a large horse where u can control the horse where u want to go .Or it is like a small rudder in a big ship where even the winds cannot prevail ..

A great forest can be set on fire by a tiny spark. The tongue is like the flame of fire. The tongue can praise and bless or spill out curses at the same time. How can the mouth which is like a fountain be pouring out blessed living water and at the same time pouring our bitter and putrid water.. Is there such a fountain ?U need to watch ur tongue and control what u want to say to others.

What u say and what u don’t say are also important. When u should say , then u must say it out aloud.. When u should not say , then u must kill it before it comes out of ur mouth.

A good , correct and proper speech is saying the right things at the right time and to the right person anywhere . U should not gossip, belittling others, bragging,,manipulating,exaggerating , complaining and lying. If u tell a woman not to gossip…I think it is like pouring water into sand..keek!

Before ur want to say something , asked this,” Is it true, is it necessary and is it kind?If the answer is affirmative or positive , then u can say it out.

Some people especially men ,they don’t think more deeply or and got no filters in their systems of thoughts. It is like they don’t have a stop valve. What they think , they will just shoot it out from their minds and then they suffer for the consequences.

It just take only a few moment to meditate on those thoughts. It is abit hard for them and they need some mind training exercise..keke!

A few words spoken in anger can destroy a relationship that took years to build. Before u speak remember words are like flame of fire once spoken out, u can never reverse the damage they have done.

A loving words here and there can uplift another person and make the world a better and more enjoyable place to work and live.

Controlled ur tongue to only speak forth positive thoughts , for out of the abundance from ur belly will flow rivers of living water…

Reference

Life Application Bible

Suzie & Laura www.pinksuzie.com

A man tried to be heroic to foil a car theft and ended dead ,killed by the four thieves.The car was not his. It is so tragic and senseless .He should have just pretended not to see or just call the police. The car is insured and he died in vain, all for nothing. He got his name in the papers but what a sad ending. One small mistake that cost his life.

http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2007/7/14/nation/18305089&sec=nation

1- What’s the panda’s 2 biggest wishes?

A i. Get rid of dark eyes ring
ii.Taking colour photo

2- There are 3 Male and 1 Female pencils in a box. The Female pencil got
pregnant!! Which Male pencil is responsible?

A. The one without the rubber

3-Which brand of shampoo is the wealthiest?

A. “Lux” Super Rich
Why does it take 4 million sperms to find just one egg to fertilize?

Actually, because all the 4 million eggs don’t ask for DIRECTION.

Hint: We, men, usually won’t ask for direction and always believe in our instinct to find road. In other words, men are quite self center, don’t you think?

An English professor wrote the words, “Woman without her man is nothing,” on the blackboard and directed the students to punctuate it correctly.

The men wrote: “Woman, without her man, is nothing.”

The women wrote: “Woman! Without her, man is nothing.”

Enjoy guys,

I-Boleh

If your friend or your relatives or your boss commited a serious drink driving incident or any law breaking act, will you lie for him?Think very carefully as it will affect your future and nobody will be able to help you.It maybe hard to say ‘NO!” But for your own wellbeing and your peace of mind,you should say a flat ‘NO!”

I dont think you should. You not only will be blacklisted but will also have to go to jail ,fined or both ,if you are caught making a false report to the police. Your future is destroyed and you will have to struggle in life with that blackmark and friends will only say how stupid you can be.

It is like being a guarantorof a loan .Can you afford to pay the penalty when your friend abscons

A friend can only do so much . You cannot pawn your future for a friend. A real friend would not want you to take the rap for him.He made the mistake , he will have to pay for it. You shouldnt even take the rap if that person is your own brother or family.
One day you will find that your kind act will not be repaid..Your thoughtless act of sacrifice will bring you untold troubles in the future.
Never lie for a friend or anybody if it is a life and death situation.

From

Suzie & Laura www.pinksuzie.com

Anyway

Mother Teresa hung a copy of this poem on a wall of the orphanage she
founded in Calcutta. Its source is unknown.

People are often unreasonable,
illogical and self-centered;
Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind,
People may accuse you
of selfish, ulterior motives;
Be Kind anyway.

If you are successful,
you will win some false friends and
some true enemies;
Succeed anyway. people may cheat you;
Be honest and frank anyway.

What you spend years building,
someone could destroy overnight;
Build anyway

If you find serenity and happiness,
they may be jealous;
Be happy anyway.

The good you do today,
people will often forget tomorrow;
Do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have,
and it may never be enough;
Give the world the best you’ve got anyway.

You see, in the final analysis.
it is between you and God;
It is never between you and them anyway.

Laura speaks ;-

Give your best shot always. Dont worry about what others say. Let them say what they want.We cannot control what others want to think or say .Dont be distracted by negative thoughts.Always think positive.
Dont give ammunitions to your enemies and neither throw stones at others.We are not perfect and live in a glass house.

Do unto others what you want others to do unto you..If you flame others, you will be flamed. Live by the sword, die by the sword.

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Suzie & Laura www.pinksuzie.com