Aisle of dreams

Come 07.07.07 , many couples in the world will tie the knot. This is an auspicious occasion in many religions.

But the question all this raises is why do people marry at all? In UK and in some other countries there is no shame in couples living together or having children out of wedlock.

People are getting married because they want to give their marriage a legal framework where it is easier to deal with the bureucracy. Once they have properties, it is better that they register their marriage for convenience with the country’s laws.It is a sort of protection for the woman should the marriage breaks down.

Though , we accept those lived in couples but marriage give it a legitimacy. Those lived in could break up anytime and they could just go their separate ways over little little things.

Some people marry because they wanted to show that they have reached there. It is not cheap to hold a marriage functions. It can be very costly , thats why the young and the poor cannot afford to marry.

If you asked a young man in Malaysia and be told that he needs 20K to 30 K to get married, he would just shakes his head.How long would he take to save this amount if he is just the breadwinner.If his g/f is also working , then they may share and he could get married earlier..keek!

If you marry by getting a loan from a financial instituitions , you will be forever in debts. That is bad Feng Shui..keke!Some get financial help from their parents .if we have such rich parents, who foot the bill , then marrying young is no problem.

Then in Malaysia, if you have children, you need to register them and inorder to do that , you would need to prove that you are married and have the certificate of marriage or your child will be stateless..

The aisle of dream is every women’s dream…for in marriage ,a women finds attainments and fulfillments and purpose for what she was created for..

For her, life begins…..

http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/the_way_we_live/article2026129.ece

From

Suzie & Laura www.pinksuzie.com

Dilemma of a school teacher..

Being a teacher is not such an easy job anymore. Students are more daring and more indisciplined.
They are not afraid of anything and many of these students are like gangsters.The girls are no better.

They are not even afraid of their parents or the parents knows nothing about their activites because they were too busy making money to make ends meet.

Teaching is a very stressful job.You either teached those who want to learn and just leave those who dont want to learn by the wayside. Those who dont want to learn ,they have no inclinations to learn , so why waste your time on them ?

When I was a student in Form 4, my rookie physics teacher read from the book and I slept during his period. He was a good teacher for he allowed me to sleep in his class..keke!I didnt cause him any trouble. Might as well read the physics book at home.

Dealing with indiscipline in school is a touch and go affair. The teacher should not lay any hands on the student.This is because , the parents would come into the picture and if you had an understanding parents , then it is OK. But In many cases , the parents would be outraged that you ‘touched’their child. Their child is always innocent and precious to them.

During my time, if we were tell it to our parents,. we will get a ’shiok!’(congrats to the teacher) from our parents for being beaten by the teacher because we were naughty.

Many parents now leave the discipline of their children to the school or teachers. If anything goes wrong, they will blamed it on the teachers and not on themselves.

When my daughter was in a primary school , she was beaten with a ruler by an arts pregnant teacher because she drew a matchstick man instead of a full body figure.She was beaten not because she was naughty but she did not know how to draw a figure of a man .This is absurb. She goes to school to learn and not learn by this hard knock method. There were two unreasonble beatings by this teacher. I went to that school to complained to the HM about this teacher for victimizing my girl. I did not confront the teacher but after my report , the beatings stopped but she applied the psycho war. Damned her.! I nearly wanted to transfer my daughter out of that school.My daughter was only 10 years old .She was so scared of going to school and I had to cajoled her and told her that , she will not be beaten again and asked her not to be scared. I was really angry with that teacher.Some teachers really have mental problems or unsuitable to teach.

Just asked her to stand outside the class or send her to the discipline master or the HM…She maybe provoked but she should set up a good example.Everyone expects a teacher to be an angel but a teacher is also a human being…

What’s the point of a police report?? How will you react when she does that to you?

Someday you will get your own medicine from her..a monster in the making.

Teaching is a hazardous job…

http://maverickysm.blogspot.com/2007/07/dilemma-of-school-teacher.html

Do you think the parents should forgive their daughter?

I think they should not go to the press and pour out their griefs. The press just want to sensationalise this news only.

What happened and what role she played in it is still unclear. Even if she did killed her daughter which I think she did not, you cannot condemned her guilty as charged.You must understand the circumstances and her state of mind at that moment.

I pity her for she was caught in a web of deceit and something happened to her baby which was out of her control. She tried to minimise the consequences of their actions and this was the wrong road she chosed.

Sometimes it could be unintentional and sometimes it could be due to temporary insanity. In a moment of insanity , either one of them did it.
Let’s not condemned and judged her. She has suffered alot and she is not evil .
She is like a victim caught in a whirlwind of events which she is powerless to changed….
God be merciful on her

Wahlau!!..If you dont bitch you are not a complete woman..keke!

Panicky, bitchy and financially dependent on men –

Whining, bitching, manipulating and being the other woman are some of the role models you see actresses being typecast in local movies and dramas.

These were some of the common traits of women depicted in television dramas, according to a research study of “Women in the Media.”

UiTM Associate Professor Kiranjit Kaur, who did the content analysis of five local dramas, said at “A Media Gender Sensitisation Dialogue: Local Content in Dramas” that scriptwriters also often portrayed women as talkative, quarrelsome and even uneducated.

The scriptwriters portray women in such light because they sell.Malaysian men would like to escape the harsh reality and live in their dreamy world and imagined all women are like that..keke! Women are conquering the man’s world .Malaysian women have climbed Mt Everest and being to North pole. These script writers are still like frogs in the well.

http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2007/7/9/nation/18246410&sec=nation

http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2007/7/11/focus/18265338&sec=focus

From

Suzie & Laura www.pinksuzie.com

Hello! Why! Why! Tell me why …..you target only Malaysian housewife only and not Malaysian men? Is it that Malaysian housewifes are a docile lot and a doormat?

The next time you shake another person’s hand, just be aware that the majority of Malaysians do not wash their hands after sneezing or coughing.

The startling discovery was made in a survey involving 1,000 housewives nationwide in the 2007 Hygiene Council Survey.

If the women are disgusting , wait till you interview the men….gross!..keke!

http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2007/7/12/nation/20070712161003&sec=nation

From

Suzie & Laura www.pinksuzie.com

Yoohoo! Since this is blog warming of 5xmom V2, this is PabloPabla of Delicious Asian Food serving a pot of Ayam Sioh for all Fansees of 5xmom V2 out there.

Remember to keep posting, will ya? Cheers!

The rich are getting richer and they dont do anything or work hard for it. They just employ others to do the investing for them. The gap between the rich and the poor is getting wider and wider.

During our forefathers time , it was work hard and be frugal but now the rich is making millions without doing any hard work. They are just letting their money work for them. Money begets more money. The stock and property market is booming.

Now , many are into blogging for some side incomes or become a problogger full time and it pays handsomely for some who have the time ,knowledge and writing skills.Not many will become like the queen bee but many will become like the worker bees working their butt out and only getting some meagre returns or none….keke!

Everything is going up and the next round of petrol going up again maybe sooner than expected.It is a vicious cycle..

All men have their frailties and whoever
looks for a friend without imperfections,will never find what he seeks.We love ourself notwithstanding our faults and we ought to love our friends in like manner -Cyrus

No man is an island by itself.As we go through life , friends come and go.Some would come and leave their footprints in the sands .When the waves come , they will be gone without any traces.Some would leave their footprints in our hearts and cast in stones forever.They maybe gone but their friendship will always be remembered.

Friends comes in many shapes and sizes.We have from the very casual friends we meet everyday to our long time very intimate and close friends ,where we share every secrets with each other.

A true friend is very hard to find.One who holds fast to u no matter what happens come summer or winter .Such friends are rare and precious.Treasure them because they are like gems.A true friend is a gift from God.

A friend is never judgemental.He will love u for what and who u are.He is always there when u need him.When u fall down , he will be there to pick u up.He will lend his shoulders for u to cry on and wipe ur tears and comforts ur soul.

In this era, we make many friends in the internet.Some net friends u will meet while some u will only know them through this medium.Some of them may meet and find their soul mates.

The internet friends could be close to our hearts as we talk and communicate daily and it is like we know them for a long time even if we had never set eyes on each other.

They may live in another continent or on the other side of the world.With the advent of the internet,we can have friends all over the world and we can just sit in the comfort of our home to talk to them.The pc beomes the window to the world,keep ur light of friendship burning forever

When you truly care for someone, you don’t look for faults or mistakes.You know you are not perfect and you dont expect perfections from others . Instead, you accept the faults and you overlook the excuses.
Never abandon an old friend or you will never find anyone who can replace him. Friendship is like wine; it gets better as it age or grow older.

From

Suzie & Laura www.pinksuzie.com

The Annoying Blur Crazy decides to invade 5xmom’s blog… With a spin off the new-blog-on-the-block…

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If you have yet to hear bout Maple Story, FYI, it’s an online game.

Just a little story here…
If you wonder where that little kid of yours learn all those bad words (but you can’t seem to find where are the sources) & they have access to internet, it’s time for supervision, just to be on the safe side.

I won’t bore you with little details but this is how some adults (not all ok?) treat kids in the game..
They call kids names - the simple one being dog.
Rudely trying to get rid of them - get lost - in all sort of languages.
When they can’t get rid of the kid, it gets to this.. nyamah, fuk, diao & the likes of it.. You get the flow.. & that’s when kids will (naively) think it’s alright & pick this up.. & use them in their vocabs.. (I am trying to emphasize the outcome, although some may say things like parents should blablabla.. I know!)
Oh.. that’s not the end.. they tell kids they (refering to the kid) do not have a mother to teach them manners. So THEY expect the kids to have manners? When THEY themselves do not have manners?? No PLEASE? But GET LOST? NYAMAH? FUK? Errr… Don’t you think the kids are having more fun seeing you p*ssed off that they won’t want to leave?

I hope adults like you know what you’re doing. Must be thinking it’s a real joy & fun to do that. Wait til a day when your kids come up to you & say those words in front of you. Or maybe you won’t have one. What a killjoy.. =p

PS1: I know the person on the other end is an adult (I’ve my source)
PS2: Just fyi, I do not have any kids… yet.

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Source

No wonder my heart is glad,
and I rejoice.
My body rests in safety.

Psalm 16:

David’s heart was glad—he had found the secret to joy. True joy is far deeper than happiness; we can feel joy in spite of our deepest troubles. Happiness is temporary because it is based on external circumstances, but joy is lasting because it is based on God’s presence within us. As we contemplate his daily presence, we will find contentment. As we understand the future he has for us, we will experience joy. Don’t base your life on circumstances, but on God

From

Today’schristianwomen.com

Laura:-

This is a beautiful passage from the New living Bible .

Joy is the overflow of a thankful heart. The reunion of a lost son to his father. A delight in the goodness of others. A delight in the very character of God such that it affects and permeates all interactions with others.

Joy an emotion of great happiness.

(From Wikipedia )

When I first know God, I experienced my first real joy .In the midst of the storm in my life, I focused on Jesus .Even when the winds were blowing with gale force, I found my rock and my joy.

Whenever a storm brews, I know it is to make me a better and experienced sailor.I thanked God for all those storms in my life.